in one answer. acc to bais shamai the young lady has to reconfirm her miun when she gets older becuase we are worried she might have changed her mind. i wonder, and if she did - so what? would she be remarried? would she need another act of kidushin? i would think she isn't married just because she changed her mind, so what's the issue?
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It seems that the mi'un is really only chal one moment before gadlus. the mi'un she does before she reaches a gedola is in essence revealing whether or not she wants this marriage, so that right before she becomes a gedola the mi'un will be chal. therefore, if she changes her mind before gadlus, she reverts back to the state of kiddushin d'rabonon.
so if she had 2 marriages, can she decide a moment before gadlus to go back to the 1st guy?
but i do hear what your saying,
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